You are clearly overwhelmed, but you need support from friends and family. The cleaning lady cannot be your emotional support. Regarding your daughter, you don’t say how old she is, but as a teacher who works with special needs kids,here is an idea: Once per week, take her to the library and tell her she can borrow anything (age appropriate). Then read/talk with her. Spend the time. This won’t come naturally at first but give it time. Take walks. Bake something. Good luck!